Did you know that your decision to attend church Sunday morning takes prep work starting on Monday?
What you do Monday determines if you will attend Church on Sunday.
How do I come to this? Many years of making the firm decision to attend church every opportunity I have.
Attending church, on a heavily regular basis is foundational for a secure walk with the LORD. Christians need to be in fellowship with other believers. We need to be under the teaching of doctrinally sound pastors on a minimum of a weekly basis. We need to read scripture daily. We need to pray daily (minimum).
In the era of Covid-19, I know that attending church can be uncertain. For a long while many church were shut down. First by mandates, then by choice as they navigated how to open and operate with all the requirements for social distancing. Many switched to an online platform, and have continued only with that. That is their choice. Other churches are open, and even those are split. Some have few precautions, many have so many that they are not welcoming. I honestly believe every individual Christian needs to decided for themselves HOW they will attend church.
BUT, ATTEND WE MUST!!!
So how does Monday play into your decision to attend church on Sunday? It is with each individual decision you make, starting with Monday. If you have resolved that you will be attending church on Sunday, that will guide and direct every decision you make through the week.
In Daniel Chapter 1, we find the introduction to Daniel, the prophet. Starting in verse 8, one see's a young man who made a decision to honor God, even when he was in a pagan nation, and it could mean death. Please read...
Daniel’s Resolve
8 But Daniel made up his mind that he would not defile himself with the king’s choice food or with the wine which he drank; so he sought permission from the commander of the officials that he might not defile himself. 9 Now God granted Daniel favor and compassion in the sight of the commander of the officials. 10 The commander of the officials said to Daniel, “I am afraid of my lord the king, who has allotted your food and your drink; for why should he see your faces looking gaunt in comparison to the youths who are your own age? Then you would make me forfeit my head to the king.” 11 But Daniel said to the overseer whom the commander of the officials had appointed over Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, 12 “Please put your servants to the test for ten days, and let us be given some vegetables to eat and water to drink. 13 Then let our appearance be examined in your presence and the appearance of the youths who are eating the king’s choice food; and deal with your servants according to what you see.”
14 So he listened to them in this matter, and put them to the test for ten days. 15 And at the end of ten days their appearance seemed better, and they were fatter than all the youths who had been eating the king’s choice food. 16 So the overseer continued to withhold their choice food and the wine they were to drink, and kept giving them vegetables.
17 And as for these four youths, God gave them knowledge and intelligence in every kind of literature and expertise; Daniel even understood all kinds of visions and dreams.
18 Then at the end of the days which the king had specified for presenting them, the commander of the officials presented them before Nebuchadnezzar. 19 And the king talked with them, and out of them all not one was found like Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah; so they entered the king’s personal service. 20 As for every matter of expertise and understanding about which the king consulted them, he found them ten times better than all the soothsayer priests and conjurers who were in all his realm. 21 And Daniel continued until the first year of Cyrus the king. (NASB)
Daniel was not alone, which shows the wisdom of having like minded friends of the faith. There is strength in that! There is accountability.
"But Daniel made up his mind" - v eight. Daniel did face persecution throughout his life, but by purposing his heart, by making up his mind to serve and honor God, he found favor, and his life was even saved.
Let's be like Daniel. If your intent on Sunday morning is to attend church, stay the course. When you are invited to a Sunday Brunch, ask it start later or you have to pass. If your child is asked to take advantage of a extra sports practice, if it is during church time, pass. None of these things in and of themselves are evil. In fact, they are neutral. But if they take our focus off of Jesus, time with Him...then they are no longer neutral events. Friend, God will reward you for being in the assembly of believers faithfully.
Additionally, take control of your household. Create a schedule, that way nothing gets in the way of attending church. For our family it looks like this:
- no sports or music practices on Sunday
- bills and meal planning are done on Thursday, Friday at the latest
- grocery shopping and all errands for the week ahead are complete on Saturday
- Laundry. It never ends. Ideally, for our family of 5, I do a load of laundry every other day. Or push come to shove, I wash it all on Saturday, and Sunday evening I hold a Folding Party while listening to the Prophecy update from Pastor J.D. Farag.
- My children, all three, were in church the very first Sunday after they were born. No I did not put them in the nursery at church, for the first 3 to 6 months I would sit in the commons to listen to the worship and message as I held them. All three of my babies heard their momma sing praises to Jesus while she held them, comforted the, nursed them.
- Our family had a season of life when my husband was unable to attend church regularly due to his career. But none the less we, our older two children (this was prior to our youngest being born) and I would get up, have breakfast and attend morning services.
- I have been blessed throughout my life that I have been member to churches with Wednesday night services. Many families find the stress of attending Wednesday night to be hard, to be too much. Again, pray about it. If it is God's will for you and your family, He will provide the time, the peace, and the ability. I have managed to get children picked from daycare and school (in separate towns), get home, get changed, pick up dinner, eat and attend church on time. FOR YEARS! And now, our new church - Wednesday night doesn't start until 7 p.m. We can easily eat at home and arrive on time with homework done, and a few minutes of piano practice complete.
I want to give a warning to those who think that attending church is not needed for a relationship with Christ. God's own word, the Bible, warns about not being with other believers regularly:
Hebrews 10:25 (NASB) - "not abandoning our own meeting together, as is the habit of some people, but encouraging one another; and all the more as you see the day drawing near."
Well, if you know me, I bring everything back to Jesus, and His soon calling of the Church home to heaven. And in light of current world events, I feel the strong urge again to warn EVERYONE that Jesus will soon call ALL BELIEVERS to Heaven.
The “day drawing near” is the “day of the Lord.” This refers to that
terrible day when Jesus will come to bring judgment on all unbelievers. Paul
wrote to the Thessalonian church about this day in 1 Thessalonians
5:1-11. Hebrews 10:27, describes that day as “a
terrifying expectation of judgment and the fury of a fire which will consume
the adversaries.”
Paul was writing to believers. Why then was he concerning them about the day
of the Lord?
Here are two reasons:
1. Some of his readers may not have been true believers and he was warning
them. Paul indicates this in verse 26, as he wrote of those who “go on sinning
willfully after receiving the knowledge of the truth.” This group no doubt
includes those who mingle with believers but have not yet believed. They are
those who are curious about the faith, and may be under conviction, but have
not yet taken steps of commitment to Christ; hence they need this message. (I
suggested studying the parable of the seeds – this is not a message of those in
the world, but those in the church! Only a very small portion of those in the
church are truly believers!)
Then there were those who were more willful in their unbelief, who were
imposters—fake believers and even secret, false prophets. Paul wanted to warn
these too, for there is always hope for even these. Remember, God wants none to
perish – there is hope for everyone. Do not look at people and think – nope they
aren’t worthy. God loves them as much as you. And remember, he who is forgiven
much, loves much. Parable of Two Debtors
2. The approaching day of the Lord has an effect on believers. Just because
believers will not experience the wrath of God on the Day of Judgment, all the
days and years leading up to that day may cause us some sorrow and grief. Just
think on all that is going in the world currently. Pandemic, political unrest,
civil unrest, joblessness, famines, locust plagues, fires.
Nonetheless, there are things we can do to be encouraged.
So, as trouble and chaos on the earth
increases, we need more and more encouragement. And so this is why Paul
exhorted them to not forsake the assembling together. Fellowship is so
important to our comfort and encouragement in these final days.
So friend, what will you and your family do?
Joshua 24:15 NASB
15 But if it is disagreeable in your sight to serve the Lord, choose for yourselves today whom you will serve: whether the gods which your fathers served, which were beyond the Euphrates River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living; BUT AS FOR ME AND MY HOUSE, WE WILL SERVE THE LORD."